As a matter of fact, one of the things they took most strongly against was a letter he had from me which said, roughly: "hey, you're going to get stopped, because you're flying on a one-way ticket. They're going to ask you whether you intend to marry here or seek work. Nope. They're going to ask where you're staying, who you're staying with, what flight you're leaving on. Here's all that info. There's going to be some question about the purpose of the visit, and whether you intend to make recourse to public funds. Visiting me; and no." They decided this was me "coaching" him to trick them, and I was told in no uncertain terms that no adult man could possibly need that information, regardless of his lack of experience flying internationally (especially since 9/11), unless there was skulduggery going on. They then took this as liberty to criticize the nature and dynamic of our relationship. Like I said, things got pretty inappropriate, and it wasn't me going on the attack.
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Date: 2006-10-21 04:44 pm (UTC)