That makes sense; it fits in with the whole . . . you ask someone for advice, and they say, "well, what I would do is. . ." and you have to say, "no, no, I'm asking about what's right for me." I sometimes wonder if really intollerant people - bigots and misogynists and so on - get away with it inside their heads and don't worry about how people will react when they say horrible things because they assume most other people think/live the way they do. It strikes me as such a dangerous mindset, but then I was raised to assume I was schizophrenic and to always look for outer cues to see if I was thinking sanely about a situation.

-Romie